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Sunday, May 27, 2018

Great Escapade (An Escaped from the Real World)

“Take every chance you get in Life, because some things only happen once.” By Karen Gibbs

     Seeing new places for the first time is really awesome. It is an extraordinary experience every person needs. Many people in the world do not have the luxury of going to another country for leisure and fun mostly because of financial deficiency. Although some people do travel even once or twice as gratification to escape on their stressful world and create a diversion which can help them meditate at least once or twice in their life. To get out on their comfort zones is beneficial to discover new things, meet new people and completely experience different way of life.

     For me, it is really an amazing experience to have an opportunity in my life that traveling became part of my job. Honestly, I am not hypocrite to say that I can afford those luxurious travel, because I cannot. I just feel lucky that once in my life even though its part of the job, I can say that those are memories worth to reminisce. 

     Let me share some of those travel memories that made me feel that working and leisure times are all in.


     The Address Downtown Hotel and the Address Dubai Mall which is connected to Dubai Mall is one of the memorable hotels during our Dubai stay. This is where we stay on my very first Dubai experience. Of course Dubai is known for the very nice architectural designs, on my first ever visit to Dubai I feel amazed with this building and what more when going inside. The Address Downtown with its 63 storey and very sophisticated modernized hotel which is very accessible to every place in the city. Imagine that we stayed here most often and just to sleep, eat , walk around and have fun. After how many days we will transfer to adjacent Address Dubai Mall, of course its mall connected what else are you expecting when you wake up from breakfast to dinner you will be there. Such a wonderful relaxing memories we ever had.



     Dubai Mall is one of the biggest mall in the eye of Dubai. This is where our days started upon waking up till the mall will be close. At first malling experience here I almost got lost because theres a lot of gates and as I see them they are almost all the same. Everytime we will travel to Dubai this is where we spent most of our time, and yeah our feet is almost numb of walking, we almost enter all the boutiques and we almost eat al over the restaurants inside. Relaxing and quite tiring at the same time.



     When you go to Dubai how can you ever missed the beautiful and colorful lights of the Dubai Dancing Fountain. Every afternoon If I am not mistaken 5:30 or 6 in the afternoon it will start to dance and every after 2 hours until the mall closed. All of the tourists will never skip to see the beautiful effects and music of this wonderful fountain most especially during night time. Even how hot the weather will be in Dubai as long as your here don’ t ever miss the chance to watch its amazing show.



     During winter time this is the attraction that you need to visit. The Miracle Garden is one of the famous garden with over 109 million flowers in different forms. It is such a wonderful attraction awarded by Guinness World Record. The big clock at the center made out ouf colorful flower, miniature buildings of Dubai’s famous buildings made out of colorful flowers are really amazing and you cannot hold yourself to take a selfie or a groupie anywhere. I am very happy to visit this relaxing yet adorable place.





     This place is like Asian in architectural design seems like you were seeing a chinese palace. These amazing hotel Zabeel Saray Jumeirah where in we stay during summer of 2013 is really awesome. Their infinity pool and beautiful gardens is really stress free kind of place. You can do a lot of recreational activities (and here I played table tennis my long time favorite sports) or walk along the seashore. The sea is very clear and very calm. You can walk barefooted along the white sand. The rooms can be compared to old or antique houses because of the furniture designs made of woods. Oh one more thing, how can I ever forget the buffet, the foods are really amazing from asian, american to arabic cuisine its up to you what you want to choose, as in eat all you can! as if you are eating in different restaurant genre. 



     Who told you that only Marian Rivera and Dingdong Dantes can visit this place or Gloria Aroyo can only stay in this million worth per stay? Actually we did stay here for almost 15 days. Burj Al Arab is one of Dubai’s famous architectural designed building next to Burh Khalifa situated along the center of the sea, such a luxurious place. From the lobby will show that tiny triangular fountain that will caught your attention! what more inside the room. When we entered our room here, all I can say is OMG! The furnitures, carpets, sofa, tables etc are all luxurious. The set up are all Hermes brand from soap to shampoo even a free hermes perfume that was set up on top of your bed. Inside the room is a huge living area where all the things were there and with a mac PC also. Imagine every room has a MAC PC! Going upstairs is our room and its very relaxing as if you are one of the richest while you sleep πŸ˜†. The bathroom is almost as big as a master’s bedroom with versace style decorative tiles. When you will see how much it cost per stay as compared of all the hotels we stayed in, well just forget about the digits since its an opportunity and free just have fun πŸ‘πŸ˜†πŸ™‚. I really enjoyed my stay here even the food as well and the hospitable hotel crews (of course most of them are kabayans). I will never forget this memory that once in my life I experienced the luxury of world’s only seven star hotel the Burj Al Arab.



     Oh Dubai! you are such a great escapade. Behind those expensive kind of living but it’s all worth it from luxurious to simplest way, everyone will remember such a beautiful place. The ultra modern architecture to a nightlife scene, from the skyscraper filled skyline scene of Burj Khalifa what more can I say. Such a wonderful place like DUBAI.




     Now let’s go to πŸ‡ΉπŸ‡· Turkey! Imagine you will walk down the aisle with a red carpet.. ooops just imagine! Here at Four Seasons Hotel at the Bosphorus simple yet elegant as you walk through the hotel entrance. The room is not as big as compared to Burj Al Arab in Dubai but I can say it is organized and clean with a famous turkish delights on your room set up is quite a gratification to love the place. At the backside of the hotel you can view the Bosphorus strait that separates the European part and Asian part of Istanbul (Bosphorus bridge), It is very unique, especially at night where in the lights surrounding the whole bridge seems dancing varies with different colors, very pleasant to the eye.





     “Baby let’s cruise away from here, Don’t be confuse the way is clear 🎢 .” Remember the song of Gwyneth Paltrow, well! well! well! cruisin along the Bosphorus river is quite expensive with a private yacht, but in our stay here I am proud to say that we experienced to cruise and see the beauty of Istanbul (cruisin along the Bosphorus Strait). Thank you to this mighty captain of Pheri (sorry I forgot his name) for the safe and well deserved promenade. 



     Miniaturk is a park where you can see all the miniature arts, landscapes, buildings and scenery all around Turkey. As the name stated its seems like mini version of Turkey inside a huge park. Almost 105 models are inside and its such an art that resemble the real big one. Here’s a video how it looks like when you visit there. http://youtu.be/dBqQAW8cjXQ  I really enjoyed roving around here, it is quite a resemblance of the “Nayong Pilipino” in the Philippines before as I remembered because of the mini version of the beautiful sceneries in my homeland inside the park also. This place is really an art! So amazing!



     Dolphinarium seems to be a kid’s place but no doubt I enjoyed the show even other adults with their family enjoyed watching the performance of the witty sea lion. There is also a dolphin performing and doing tricks together with its trainor. The show was really fantastic, can be compared to a mini carnival show.








     Ciragan Palace Kempinski Istanbul was like a mansion or I can say an old Palace where you can find a prince or a princess (just an imagination) anyways here as you entered in their very elegant lobby you will feel that you are inside a Palace. Big chandeliers, elegant furnitures, colorful flowers, huge displays and paintings and more. All I can say is how lucky I am to have an opportunity to land on this beautiful place. Such a wonderful experience worth reminiscing.



     Istinye Park Mall is where I first taste the Shake Shack Burger πŸ”. Yeah since rice meals is not mostly eaten here so we are stock in burger meals and shake shack became our all time favorite. This mall is not as big as Dubai Mall but look at the structural designs even around it inside out you will be amazed. Inside is like an an open park witn a man made small river that flows while you sitting on the bench besides it. I guess this is the only mall We visited in Istanbul.



     Rumelihisari Castle is a medieval fortress located in Istanbul. It was built by Ottoman Sultan Mehmed II in the preparation of the conquest of Constantinople. It is situated on the shore of the Bosphorus Strait. This place is really historical and as I remembered we didn’t reach to go on the top of the castle, we are just in the half part but up there you can see the whole Bosphorus Strait. Theres a lot of stairs to walk through and you can see a lot of antiques or medieval things that was used by their progenitive/ancestors.



     If you like shopping well this is the place to be. Forget about those ukay or malls. This place is all in to buy presents and remembrance, foods and goodies and a lot more. This os the Kapalicarsi Grand Bazzar located in Istanbul near the mosque. From here I bought a lot of things such as T shirts, figurines, keychains even the fancy earrings made by hand is really awesome to buy here. The place is very well ordered because food is separated to non food. If you want also to buy spices, preserve foods, turkish delights this is the place to be. You will get tired of walking and roving around the place and a lot of tourists people were here.



     Let’s go and travel via domestic flight from Istanbul to Bodrum. I never been to Boracay but when we went here I can compare the place to Boracay. It seems to be a province far from the city and you can see the blue sea while your travelling going to Kempinski Hotel Barbaros Bay. Bodrum is really a paradise. As we are travelling I can see a lot of olives and people selling olives around the place, you can also see that besides every house there is an igloo. When we arrive at the place I thought the Palace I saw in Istanbul is the last beautiful place but I was wrong! Because Bodrum is such a lovely place. We stayed here in a villa situated beside the shore and from our villa there is a balcony behind where you can see  nothing but the beautiful yet calm sea. Yeah it is very relaxing and good for meditation. Outside the villa you can rove around and walk in the swimming pool area or in the park or to visit the whole place you can ride in a golf car so you will not get tired. The place is so huge and the hotel is situated upland. The food here is good though everything is expensive, anyways its free so grab the opportunity just enjoy the stay.  





     While we are here we went also to a bazaar or a market called Bodrum Bazaar. As compared in Istanbul it is almost the same but it is situated outside and it is only open by schedule I guess Tuesdays or weekends I don’t know. Most tourist go here to shop variety of things. You can buy shirts hollister, lacoste etc (i don’t know if its orig or not) all I can say is all are good quality and cheaper as compared in the mall. You can use their currency turkish Lira or Euro to buy things here. Well I bought a lot of things here due to the cheaper prices πŸ˜†.



     This is the view from our room in Ritz Carlton Istanbul. After a tiring domestic flight from Bodrum, we went back to Istanbul and stayed here for few days before heading home. The place is just like Manila because traffic is everywhere and a lots of building around, but from the top view you can see the whole city. The food here were good and there’s a buffet breakfast every morning. I didn’t see the whole place at Ritz but our stay here was very pleasant and oh! I remember the lady pianist who performed here was very excellent! 

     Turkey is a very nice country, a lot of place to visit if you really have the chance and the time. If ever I would be given a chance again I would like to come back and visit the rest of its place. 

“Every Journey is a metaphor for a lifetime”
By Irma Kurtz








Desserts Made in the Desert (Food is Love ❤️)

     

     Many people says that “a way to a man’s heart is through his stomach.” This widely spread humorous saying is more on reality basis, a fact that a woman can make a man love her by cooking him good meals. 

     I love to cook, though I don’t consider myself as an expert and I don’t have enough trainings, certificates, diplomas and etc. I just want to make or prepare something as much possible to learn and experiement new recipes base on what I read or what I watch in the cooking shows. I am inspired of some recipes, food blogs, youtube and other apps but one thing is for sure I am trying to make it as my own version because I love to modify and make it as simple and delicious as it can be. In every tries the outcome is not always perfect so just keep on trying and experimenting until you reach the best result. 

     One of the show in youtube channel that I like the most is The bigger bolder baking by Gemma Stafford, at first I saw it in the internet while browsing for the perfect recipe on how to make a simple and easy no baked goodies. Suddenly it just hooked my attention and there are lots of episodes whether simple or complex that I guess even newbie like me can easily do. I also follow her website (Bigger Bolder Bakingwhere in you can see all the recipes in her youtube channel and it is very systematic. I can proudly say now I am a biggest fan πŸ˜‰. 

     These are the recipes that I tried to make recently while I am here in KSA with and without occasions as long as I have time and urge to cook πŸ˜‹ especially for my number one fan (my hubby)...


My No Baked Plain Cheesecake

Ings:
500g cream cheese (i used president brand because its sale in tamimi🀣)
500g thick cream
1sachet of Mr gulaman powder dissolved in hot water
250g condense milk
3 egg yolks
Vanilla (optional)
For the crust:
250g graham cracker (crushed)
100g unsalted butter (melted)

How to Prepare:
  1. For the crust since I don’t have crushed grahams and I used the biscuits, I put it in the food processor until its finely crushed.
  2. Put the melted butter and continue to mix it until it is well combined,
  3. Get a springform pan and put the mixed crush grahams with butter. Flattened and level it to make a crust. Set aside and put in the fridge.
  4. For the filling, in a bowl add the cream cheese, thick cream, condense milk and drop of vanilla and mixed it using a mixer until its well combined and creamy.
  5. Put all the mixture in a pan (i used my rice cooker for this) and make the mixture boil in a low temperature while continuosly mixing it gradually add the egg yolks. When it start boiling pour the gelatine dissolve in hot water and continue mixing 3-5 minutes will do.
  6. Get the crust in the fridge and slowly pour the mixture and level it.
  7. Use the remaining crushed graham and sift it on top of the cheesecake as garnish. 

     Oh lala this is very simple and so yummy πŸ˜‹. I can describe it as if you are eating an eggpie and a cheesecake in one because of the creamyness of the cheesecake filling. Soft, creamy and so tasty my husband love it 😍 as he always loves me ❤️😍. 





No Baked Oreo Cheesecake w/ Love

Ings for the crust:
250g oreo cookies (crushed)
100g melted unsalted butter

For the fillings:
100g oreo cookies (slightly cut into small pcs)
500g cream cheese (i used president brand)
500g thick cream
1 cup condense milk
1/4 cup sugar
Drop of vanilla essence (optional)
3tbsp Gelatin powder dissolve in hot water
14 pcs whole oreo cookies (for toppers)

How to prepare:
  1. For the crust: crushed the oreo cookies in the food processor and pour in the melted butter and mixed it well.
  2. Get the springform pan and pour in the crushed oreo with butter, spread and flattened it to form a crust. Set aside and keep in the fridge.
  3. To prepare the cookies and cream filling. In a bowl put the cream cheese, thick cream, condense milk, sugar and drops of vanilla and mix it with hand mixer until the consistensy becomes creamy and thick.
  4. Gently pour the melted gelatin powder and mix it thouroughly then add the oreo bits and fold it to the creamy filling.
  5. Gently pour the cookies and cream filling into the crust and flattened it with spatula.
  6. Garnish with oreo cookies on top and oreo bits.
  7. Let it set in the fridge overnight
     Well guys the first try wasn’t as perfect as the plain cheesecake that I made before but the taste is perfectly done with the right sweetness and natural taste of cookies and cream.




No Baked Caramel Cheesecake (Biscoff)

Ings for the crust:
250g lotus biscoff biscuits
100g melted butter

For the fillings:
200g whip cream
125ml thick cream
1 cup Biscoff lotus spread
1tbsp gelatine powder (mix in warm water)
250g cream cheese
1/2 cup condensed milk

How to prepare:
  1. For the crust: crushed the lotus biscoff cookies then add the melted butter and mixed well.
  2. Get the springformed pan and pour in the crushed lotus biscuit and pressed it evenly to form a crust. Then set aside inside the fridge.
  3. To prepare the filling pour the whip cream and mix it using handmixer until thick in consisteny then add the cream cheese, lotus biscoff spread and condensed milk and continue mixing until well incorporated and it reach the creamy texture.
  4. Mix the gelatin powder in warm water and pour it on the creamy filling then fold it evenly to the mixture.
  5. Pour the creamy filling over the crust evenly
  6. Melt a cup of biscoff spread and drizzle it on top of the cake and put in the fridge overnight.
     This cheesecake is one of the most tastiest I made. The distinct caramely taste of the lotus biscoff spread made the fillings so rich and tasty. It is a lil bit sweeter as compare to my previous no bake cheesecake recipes, maybe next time I will adjust the measurement of the condensed milk since the biscoff spread is naturally sweet already. I so love love it ❤️❤️❤️




Oreo Cookie Butter

Ings:
15 pcs Oreo cookies
1oz or 28.5g butter
1/4 cup Fresh milk or evap milk

How to prepare:
  1. Remove fillings of oreo.
  2. In food processor pulse the cookies until they become fine crumbs.
  3. Add in melted butter and evap milk and pulse it together until becomes thicknin texture.
  4. Store in a jar for up to 6 weeks innthe fridge.
     I made this oreo cookie butter when I watched Ms Gemma Stafford in youtube and followed his bigger bolder baking page. Now I am a big fan of her πŸ˜‰. This is so easy with blending a 3 ingredients only. I just modified the measurements and oh! so yummy and very smooth, I can even get a spoonful and eat it straight or make a desserts out of it.

Here is then link for the original recipe if you wanna try it.



Chunky Peanut Butter Oreo Truffles

Ings:
1/2 cup oreo cookie butter
1/2 cup oreo cookie crumbs
1/2 cup Chunky peanut butter (goody)

How to prepare:
  1. Mixed together the oreo cookie butter and the crumbs.
  2. Make a small bite size balls out of the dough and place them in parchment paper.
  3. Chill in the fridge for 15 mins.
  4. Melt the chunky peanut butter in the microwave         (1 min or 30 secs only) 
  5. Dip the truffles until it is coated with melted peanut butter and place on the parchment paper.
  6. Repeat on the rest of the truffles.
  7. Store in a fridge (can be up to a week)
     Delicious truffles and it is bite sized so everyone would love it. I made it from the oreo cookie butter that I made recently. Maybe my son would love it too when I made this truffles for him on my upcoming vacation. ❤️❤️❤️ 




No Baked Choco-Peanut Butter Cheesecake

Ings: 
250g digestive biscuit
100g butter
250 ml whipping cream
250 ml thick cream
500g cream cheese 
1/2 cup condense milk
5g gelatine powder (melted in hot water)
1 cup chunky peanut butter (goody)
1 cup Semi sweet chocolate chips
1/2 cup thick cream

How to prepare:
  1. For the crust: using food processor crush the digestive biscuits until it become fine crumbs then add the melted butter and mix until well incorporated.
  2. Pour the crumbs in the springformed pan, flattened it evenly to make a crust. Set aside and put in the fridge.
  3. For the filling: whip the cream until it doubled then add the thick cream, cream cheese, peanut butter and condense milk. Mix it altogether with a hand mixer until the consistency become creamier.
  4. Melt the gelatine powder in hot water and gradually add to the creamy mixture and mix once again.
  5. Get the prepared crust and pour the filling, level it with spatula and put in the fridge overnight.
  6. For the granish, Add the 1cup of thick cream and 1 cup of semi sweet chocolate chips in a bowl and put in the microwave about 30secs to 1 minute (just for the chocolate to melt) mix it with a fork and let it cool a little bit. 
  7. Pour the melted chocolate mixture on top of the cheesecake and put again inside the fridge for about 1 to 2 hrs. 
  8. Ready to serve!
     Here it is! I made it for my special day and its the fourth cheesecake flavor I got to make so far. More to come, since cream cheese are everywhere here in Riyadh πŸ˜† I can’t wait to make more and more cheesecakes. 

“Life is short, eat dessert FIRST” πŸ˜‹πŸ˜‹πŸ˜‹















Wednesday, May 23, 2018

Prejudice (be rational at work and stop pretending)




     People are rational, they can choose and think in a reasonable way. It’s either having fair, sensible or sound judgment or as much as possible appropriate. People knows what is right and wrong, they have the intellectual capacity to make the right decisions based on facts and applied rules unlike animals.

     Have you ever wonder why hamburger is hamburger without ham on it, pineapple is called pineapple but its not pine nor apple, there is no egg in eggplant, dragonfly is not a dragon that fly but it is called a dragonfly. Rationality is just like those words, it has different meaning as you say it. The logic is, every words or phrases that you are going to say will have other meaning to others or vice versa. Those kind of words is full of interesting quirks, but this is different at the workplace because our behavioral quirks maybe misunderstood by some most of the time. 

     I remember before when I am working in a company, one employee approached me and ask for a sickleave. He told me to sign and give him a sickleave beacuse he is not feeling well and he’s experiencing LBM. As a nurse I assessed him, took his vital signs and provide some nursing interventions. I asked him to stay in the clinic and give him medicine to take as doctor’s prescription. I asked him to take one in feont of me and stay in the clinic for few minutes but he is in a hurry and insisting to give him the sick leave urgently. He argued with me and I told him directly “you are not sick but you want a sickleave, are you going somewhere? Is it very important that you will pretend to be sick?” He just continue and I never forget his angry face. He walked out and I never give him anything because if I did, I will not be rational on my decision. Few months later, this person message me and say if I still remember him, of course who will never forget that angry face, pretending in front of me. He then told me and say sorry on that day he is quite rude because he needs to go to his agency urgently for his application abroad. I told him that if he just told me without lying then maybe I can do something. 

     The lesson here is when you make decision stay as is and stand out on what you think is right. People at work may become irrational in different ways, whether they are ahead of you or your subordinates. You must know what your job is all about and how to manage such things that may arise in front of you with affirmation. Lying is natural because we are human, but as rational being we know what is right and wrong and we can avoid such, though we know white lies do exists. “Honesty is the best policy” if you are honest then you will gain trust and this is priceless. Irrational people don’t listen and they only focused on how to fulfill their needs they are unpredictable or sometimes even.

     People become irrational at work due to some reasons:
  • Human decisions vs emotions. Amygdala is the center of emotional processing that receives input to the brain. Once damage you cannot literally made a good decisions. Human decision making is not more than beeing rational it also requires emotions. Be considerate to others, be aware of every decisions you will make at work because it may cause negative impact to others.
  • Illogical reasoning. Most of the time people thinks they are logical but this is just being pretentious (nobody is perfect). People who thinks they knew it all, the outcome will be nonsense. They just become judmental in some ways that contributes to bad decision making.
  • Embarassment and shamed preventions. Its always happening at the workplace, most people become irrational because they want to recover on their own mistakes. This is where lies will start just to cover up the embarrassment. In reality it is easy to say a word but its hard to implement or do it in actions. It is very easy to say “policy” but to understand or implement it rationally is doubtful.
  • Invicible reactions. Sometime people decides non sense because they have a piece of information or data that others doesn’t know about and reacting to that. In short it just an assumption that made them decide irrationally and employees get affected.
  • Lack of skills. There’s a saying “if the only tool you have is hammer, every problem is a nail”. Sometimes bad decision is because of limitted capability. You have enough knowledge but you don’t have the capability to apply it in action which is very important in making decisions at work. It is very difficult to admit that you have deficient ability rather than admitting that you do not know something. Competency is a must.
  • Disagreement between two parties. In a workplace we work as a team but most often it happens that there is a very important information I know but you don’t accept my information rather you decides on what you want and what you only knew. This is selfishness rather and closed mindedness. A person doesn’t want to listen on other’s opinion because she doesn’t like her or maybe there’s an issue with her that bits your ego. Conflict may arise and it becomes irrational.
  • Communication barrier. Some people in the workplace cannot communicate with regards to their decisions or rather opinions or suggestions. It’s either they do not understand such things or they are quite ashamed to speak up. Clarification or expressing oneself is very important especially at work. If you know something try to open it up or if you have questions etc. don’t just keep it within yourself, instead voice it out as long as you don’t do any harm to others. The core reason of being rational comes out one way or another.
     Remember nobody in this world is created perfectly, every person has their own flaws. Being an effective leaders or colleagues, one must accept the fact of being irrational and knows how to deal with those. It’s just a matter of right approach in managing those tricky situations to learn better who we are working with, mentor them and even learning about ourselves as well.

Monday, May 21, 2018

The Leader in You





“Your value does not decrease for someone’s inability to see your worth”

   Every person has distinct personality and this is how we are created by God. You cannot be me and who I am cannot be the same as who you are. We are made by the image of God (Genesis 1:26) which is sets apart from animals, we are created as a rational, volitional agent. In other words as a human being we can reason and choose. This is a reflection of God’s intellect and freedom. 

     Life is too short for anything else. A person doesn’t need to be extravagant just to show others that he/she is capable. If someone valued you as a person, they can see your talent, hardwork and loyalty no need to show it. If they do not see the real value of you maybe its time to take a brand new start and go to where you are celebrated and not just tolerated.

     A leader who do not see the value of an employees do not last, anyways. A true leader can see an employees talent and hard work because it is their job to recognize the value of their people and encourage them accordingly with PRIDE.

     A good leader knows how to PROMOTE an employee where in he can  see the progress not only the mistakes. A good leader knows how to give REWARD. It is a give and take situation when you do good you will be rewarded because he can give recognition to the good service and achievemnent you’ve made. A good leader will encourage an employee to get INVOLVE or participate in an activity or situation where you can learn more and not for his selfish gains only. A good leader know how to DEFEND his subordinates and not to put them always at risk just for his own certainty. A good leader always EMPOWER his people to make them stronger and for them to gain more self esteem in claiming their rights. A person who always threaten and puts you down is not suitable to be a leader.

     Integrity is a by far most important asset of being a leader. It is doing the right thing at the right time with or without anybody is watching is an asset of a great leader. Most people quit their jobs because of a deal-breaking behavior possessed by their superior:
  • To make oneself look better at the expense of others, he/she represent it as his/her own accomplishment.
  • Maligning, defaming, vilifying or badmouthing others just to make financial and position advancement.
  • Credit taking for someone else’s work and effort.
  • Damaging someone’s reputation by spreading false rumors.
  • Claiming that he/she can do all the works and responsibility even its not her job pretending he/she can do it all. (Showing off)
  • Lie of omission where in telling a lie just to cover up wrongdoings.
“Honesty is a very expensive gift – don’t expect it from cheap leaders” By Warren Buffet

     Just like a mirror, what you see is what you are. If you want to see fault to others it is very easy for you to notice and points on their mistakes and wrongdoings, just like mirroring of your insecurities. It is just a plain ego, your attitude to be perfectionist and stating that you are better than anyone else. It is very pessimistic to always look on the negative side of others, you are just making yourself deppressed. Why not look on the positive aspects to see the brighter colors of life.

    If you are a leader, be curious about people. A simple human curiosity will help you know other people better. Instead of thinking if others did something right or wrong just think about why they did it. Leaders should be aware and look after the larger meaning of life, yes it is very easy to find faults with people but the question is as simply as this- if you want to find the beauty of life, appreciate and look at something good in every person you will meet. If you want to live a miserable life then go ahead and be a perfectionist. The choice is simply yours!

  • If he sees mistake, I see a lesson and learned,
  • If he sees a shadow, I see the light and spreadt it
  • If he sees the sun, I see the whole universe
  • If he sees the youth, I see the brighter future ahead.
  • If he sees success, I see a journey.
  • If he sees me as nothing but stranger, I see him as something like my future friend.

“If you want to see the true measure of man, watch how he treats his employees, not his equals.” By J.K Rowling




     

Sunday, May 20, 2018

Am I an Effective Dental Nurse/Assistant








AM I AN EFFECTIVE DENTAL ASSISTANT?

How it is to be an effective Dental Assistant?
Sometimes we are wondering why some people excel at their work, other bounce and feel unfulfilled. I am not a dentist or a dentistry graduate either, but for me learning is a habit and those who valued the practice will gain more effectiveness in the future. These are what we need to learn as I learned…

1. BE PROACTIVE AND NOT REACTIVE
As Dental Assistant learn to have control over work and yourself. We are working as part of a team but we work for someone else. Don’t be confused or else you will fall into the trap of feeling that you don’t have control over work. A proactive assistant is the one who takes responsibility of his/her choices, it does empowers a person. Proactivity meansbalance and having confidence to make choices between self and others. 

On the other hand, acting afterward instead of before is the opposite which is called reactive or passive. They are the one who always rely on others dependents on the circumstances around them. Passive person say things such “I cant do that” or “I don’t have a choice”. These are the people who blame others for their own choices and mistakes. 

Don’t be a reactive Dental Assistant letting others control your life instead, be a proactiveone and have a confidence to make choices even peers may not agree because you yourself are responsible person.

2. PRIORITIZE “Put First Things First”
Remember equilibrium is a balance, a highly effective dental assistant knows that life balance is important to overall health and has the ability to say NO. Make decisions based on your values and priorities. There is no guilt and conflict about the right choice. Those people who doesn’t know how to say NO are always stress and tired of doing nothing because their attitude is to accept too many things but not doing it all well (pretentious) and the outcome is neglecting the aspects of their life such as physical or emotional well being or even their family as well. Set boundaries and know your limits at work!

3. BE OPTIMISTIC THINK WIN-WIN
We work as a team environment, but most of the time some become territorial, catty or focused on production instead of patients. This become a win-lose situation doesn’t it? 

Our viewpoint should always be positive (optimistic) we need to see the situation as “we can all get what we want” instead of trying to win, a highly effective dental assistant looks for agreement and solutions. For us to do this, we have to be true to our feelings and values and be able to express them with consideration of others and believe that everyone can win.Don’t focus only on one side but take the other side as well. “Positive Attitudes In Negative Situations” (PAINS)

4. EMPATHIZE “Understand and be Understood”
Good communication skills is a part of our work, but it can a bit tangled up sometimes. Willing to put the needs of other (especially the patient) ahead of our own is a profession of service and professional ethics as well.

Engaged to listen empathetically to patients, doctors or coworker and increased the ability to really understand the point of view and feelings, it is easy to think that if we let themknow we understand it means we agree with them but that’s not the case always. As dental assistant we always put ourself in the patient shoes and feel what the patient could possibly feel in different situation. Some patient may act rude to you or sensitive but we empathize instead of sympathizing them because for patients, assistants need to have a lot of patience and understanding in every situation ahead. 

5. COLLABORATE, TEAMWORK “SYNERGY”
Opportunity to work synergistically in dentistry, one must be open to others suggestions and new solutions. Synergy means working together to create a result not obtainable by one person. Amazing concept but it can be more exciting when applied at work tandem between doctors and dental assistants. Most of the time doctors and assistants thinks opposite, they have different attitude at work and states different opinions as well. Mostly because it is their pride that they are doctor and we are their assistant only. It requires the understanding that being different is good and because of those differences we will come up with different outcome together as well to collaborate with such differences as a team the solutions and ideas are better in terms of dental practice too.

6. BE FRESH AND SHARP
Pamper yourself and challenge yourself! Dental assistant work more effectively when we are fresh and sharp. Physically eat better, exercise, and take a good rest. Socially spend time with family and relationships. Spiritually meditate, spend time in nature, appreciate arts and pray. Ask yourself, am I taking responsibility of my choices? Am I consciously aware of my priorities, values and beliefs? Am I effective at work? Am I working with balance? If you answer those then don’t think twice because you are fresh and sharp and highly effective Dental Assistant.

Dental assisting is not for the faint of heart. If you have determination you will go far. There will be some tough days, but those who are dedicated know how to strike in and stride. Lending an ear is essential and we know how to be a calming presence, though sometimes dental assistant works long hours with few breaks, but we find it rewarding being a people person. Dental assistant says “They do it all— and often “They do it all at the same time” so when people are made for a job their skill becomes a HABIT…

Saturday, May 19, 2018

Money vs Healthcare

Courtesy of my RLE duty year 2007 at UPhMC
     
     Life is more meaningful when our goal is fulfillment rather than gratification.” This is one  mo tivation I really endure as I work and become a healthcare professional. Each day of duty is a fullfillment if you used to give the hollistic care on every patient being handled in the area and all of them are recovering with positive outcome. For every goal being achieved, we can proudly say that “I am an effective healthcare professional!”

     I pity those people who seeks medical attention to medical professionals but doesn’t even know what their medical oath really means.

     I pity those people who doesn’t even know their medical problems and keep on trusting unethical medical professionals who only count digits with their fingers but doesn’t know how to prioritize and even use the triage system. 

    I pity those people who went to the hospital complaining with their medical problems but the professionals in front of them only cares on their capabilities to pay treatments or how much is the coverage of their insurance was.

      I pity those people who wants hope to live but keep losing it due to misdiagnosis or sometimes intentionally wrong statement of medical professionals, just to earn a living of their own which is more about selfishness and greed and not about fullfillment and dedication on their chosen profession.

      Corruption is not only happening and seen in politics, it is everywhere! but the worse scenario is that even your own life cannot be save because of this. 

     How can you trust a professional who always look after their comfortability and forget about empathy? How can you let them assess a patient if they want only is to leave them with the pocket emptied without any guarantee? How can you let them do the diagnosis, if they only want is your money without any basis? How can you let them plan a treatment , if they are only after the income and not the outcome? Do you think they can make the best intervention if money is their possession and the first thing in their profession? What will be the evaluation, is it the best quality? Or maybe the best of the quantity?

     I didnt say that all in the medical field are the same but mostly are, maybe if a refresher course is to those who didn’t gain enough practice. I can say a refresher course is merely needed to refresh their minds of the OATH AND ETHICS that they left behind during their medical school years. It is one of the biggest impact and contributions on their medical careers together with their best ever experiences and knowledge.  

“It is our attitude toward life that determines life's attitude toward us. We get back what we put out.”
-Earl Nightingale 

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